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Saturday, October 24, 2026

rambling about Pumpkins, a memory



By  now i think you have noticed how much i like Halloween.  It is the holiday i look forward to  almost as much as Christmas....and some years more  than Christmas.  The spookyness of Halloween here in the piney wood is thick with the dark ,quiet nights, save for the occasional owl hoot or the rustling 0t a wild turkey or deer walking thru the still standing cornstalks. 
There are the soft breezes that rattled the dry leaves  the  dry leaves hanging tightly  from tree branches.  Swirling gusts of wind that send the fallen leaves racing across the yard, stirring crisp, dry swirling leaves into a frenzy that i think is the definitive sound of late October.   
 Stealthy but far from silent creatures who walked along the edges of the creek as they foraged for something extra to eat before the long winter's sleep began, become more bold. 

The days growing ever shorter, i would bring my  paper bags from the A&P to a friends house, along with crayons scraps of cloth, images cut from advertisments about Halloween.  Patiently covered with each one with omages witches, Owls, spooky trees, whatever we could think of to decorate them for "Tricks and Treats".  Some nights we didn't make it home before darkness fell, so deeply engrossed in decorating our  paper bags with images  fit Trick or Treating .  Fog especially near the creek was  both scary and beautiful.  It came from the ponds near the the swamp, and floated like specters, past our eyes and in our dreams.
 

With the lengthening nights  carved pumpkins t guarded  many front doors.   Some houses had one, and some many. Each lantern had a  a candle was and still is surprising to me how much lite spilled from the faces each one of those faces carved into each orange  lantern.  
When it wa my turn to blow out candle for that night i  must admit that i looked over my shoulder, and around the corners of the house.
Reasoning that one never knew what might be haunting the darkness, after all the cemetary was nearby.

Pumpkins were carefully selected and brought into the house to ripen quickly before carving.  It was always fun to scrape out the seeds in their orange octopus looking clumps, and sticky and slimy feeling clumps, the next day we separated the seeds, some to plant next year and some to roast and eat .  Walking thru the  vines and pumpkin patch looking for the perfect pumpkin to make into your own Jack-O-Lantern was an honor. It seemed that way to me. Only certain pumpkins were destined to be come Jack-O-Lanterns.
Some pumpkins were for pies , and others were feed to the cows. 
Craving a Jack-O-Lantern a right of passage. 
We would load out old truck with pumpkins and may-be some corn stocks if there were any nice ones left and  a couple bails of hay.   An even greater right of passage was riding into town with my Dad and a load of   pretty pumpkins into town on an October Saturday and selling them to folks who didn't have gardens.
Our truck was never piled that high with pumpkins, not for fear they would fall off, but because we would get a ticket, at least i think that was the reason.
I considered myself more than lucky to have my own pumpkins to carve, and in my heart i loved the misshapen ones best, as you never knew how they would turn out until you light the candle and set them out  in the dark night for everyone who passed by our house to enjoy.


thank you to all of the people who took all of these cool pictures!!!

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Wednesday, October 21, 2026

haiku--- , tricks or treats


 Owl by the gate waits
Pumpkin's glowing eyes await
at darkness we ride

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Monday, October 12, 2026

Grandma's Kitchen a magical apple cake




 tThe days grow shorter and the nights longer, a chill edges thus the house, every room except the kitchen. T here  the warmth of the cook's stove and the aroma of vegetables cooking, the sweetness of  apple cobbler  blend with fresh coffee warm ones body and soul.   I for one start to miss summer before the vivid leaves of autumn leaves even begin to fall.  
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Thursday, October 8, 2026

Old Tyme Halloween Postcards


 








              

            
















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Saturday, October 3, 2026

pumpkins, glorious pumpkins

 

 


 

 


 

 

 

 

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Tuesday, September 29, 2026

its, well its not a telestitch

 

OPPS it's not a telestitch it's something I made up, or may-be it is something else.  Poetry fascinates me.  Puzzles  fascinate me.  Words facinate me.

Errr UMMM ummm UHHH errrr UMMM, I wasn't paying good attention and got it wrong, no wonder it was so easy to write a telestitch, I was doing it wrong.....got it now,  last letter of the last word in the  line, NOT the first letter of the last word in a line.  

I would like to say I made that error because I was excited to learn something new....but I can't truthfully say that or can i????  

 


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  Or can I?  Merriam Webster defines a telestich "as a poem in which the consecutive final letters of the lines spell a name."  So i tried to rework it.

 weary, longing for sleep 

looking out the window
the mottled colors of evening

a long day ends 

slumber rewards the tired 

sunrise begins each new day

quiet streets to roam
things so endearing
day dreams of adventure
all good things await me
imagination grandly soars





 

 

OK perhaps a nice enough poem....but it won't work, it's not a telestich.  I could claim  anew poetic form, so i looked one up. "What   is a poem called when the first letter of the last word in a line?" 
 

the reply was " Last-Word Acrostic: The first letter of the final word in each consecutive line spells out the hidden text." 


  

Good night, sweet dreams!

 

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Saturday, September 26, 2026

September full moon, haiku




 

RAIN  GENTLY FALLING

waiting FOR THE CLOUDS TO CLEAR

 THERE YOU ARE, LADYMOON!!!

 

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Wednesday, September 23, 2026

Guest blogger Navied Mahdavian on How to fight with the people we care about, illustrated

 

 WOW! 
Yes WOW!!!!
"Some of my best friends are people who started out as foes."

_ A voice in the Wind

 

 

 

 

How to fight with the people we care about, illustrated

September 9, 20265:01 AM ET

By 

Navied Mahdavian

, 

Marielle Segarra

If you’re like me, you may be conflict-averse. 

IMAGE: Navied running away from giant words that are about to fall on him. The words read “CAN WE TALK?”
Navied Mahdavian for NPR


Want more intimacy in your relationships? Conflict could help.

Should we argue with the people we love? For Priya Parker, author of a book published in September, The Art of Fighting: The Transformative Power of Conflict, the answer is yes.

While many people dread conflict, it's not necessarily a bad thing. In fact, it's necessary if we want to be in close, authentic relationships, says Parker. So when you have a moment of misalignment with someone, try thinking of it as a signal. There's something here to talk about.

"We assume if the heat is rising, this must be bad. But the reframe is that there's something relevant here. I should pay attention," she says.

Parker, who has been a conflict resolution facilitator for 20 years, shares advice about common questions you may have about getting into fights — whether that's with a partner, a family member or a friend.

But conflict isn’t a bad thing. It’s crucial if we want to be in close, authentic relationships, says conflict resolution facilitator Priya Parker, author of The Art of Fighting. 

IMAGE: Three monkeys doing the see no evil, hear no evil, speak no evil thing.
MONKEY 3: One of us has to say something.

So, what’s the best way to fight with those we care about? Here are questions you may have, with advice from Parker.
Navied Mahdavian for NPR
1. If we fight, is my relationship doomed?  No! Think of conflict like a signal – there’s something to discuss here, Parker says.

IMAGE: Navied and a woman sitting on a couch. An elephant and a baby elephant stand awkwardly in the room.
NAVIED: Maybe we could at least address the baby elephant in the room.
Navied Mahdavian for NPR
Healthy conflict can bring structure and clarity to your relationships, and help you figure out how to move forward together — or not. 

IMAGE: Navied as an artist standing before a large canvas with a venn diagram painted on it. He holds his thumb out with his eyes closed, as if studying the painting. One side says of the venn diagram says  “My priorities”; the other says “Their priorities.”
Navied Mahdavian for NPR
2. How do I know whether it’s worth it to fight with someone? 

IMAGE: Navied on stage as hamlet. 
NAVIED: To fight or not to fight, that is the question. 

Parker says to ask yourself: 

Do I care enough about this person? 
 Do I still long for this relationship?
Is this conflict touching on a core value of mine?
By saying something, could I alter the situation?
Navied Mahdavian for NPR
3. What’s the most constructive way to have an argument? 



IMAGE: Navied standing with someone who is dressed for the apocalypse (goggles, combat boots etc.) 
NAVIED: I’m also a prepper, but less for the apocalypse and more for difficult conversations. 

Before a fight, ask yourself: What is this really about? It can help you have the right conversation. Be humble — and curious about where the answer leads you, Parker says.
Navied Mahdavian for NPR
4. Fighting makes me anxious. Is there anything I can do about that? 
Ease your discomfort with this checklist.  

How to get your body ready for a fight

Relax! Take a deep breath and give your limbs a shake. 
 Focus on the present. Try not to rehash past arguments.
 Remember: You have agency. You are choosing to have this conversation.
Navied Mahdavian for NPR
5. They’re confrontational, I’m not. How should we fight? 
Bridge the gap by scheduling your fight, Parker says, a tip she learned from NPR journalist and friendship expert Rhaina Cohen.  

RHAINA: “Someone who wants to get things off their chest immediately is forced to cool down. Someone who's conflict averse gets a nudge to bring up difficult topics,” says Rhaina Cohen.
Navied Mahdavian for NPR
6. So we fought. Now what?  

Take a beat to talk through your feelings. Try not to get swept away by them, Parker says.

	IMAGE: Navied in a little boat with another person. They are about to enter the “Tunnel of Awkward Silence” 
	NAVIED: This is OK. 
	
Reflect on the argument together and resist the urge to judge. You might ask each other, “What are you taking from this conversation?”
Navied Mahdavian for NPR
And remember, not everything needs to be a big fight, Parker says. Sometimes you can just tell someone they’ve upset you, get an apology and move on. 

	IMAGE: Navied now walks towards the towering “CAN WE TALK.”
	NAVIED: Of course.   

Sometimes you have to fight because you care, even if it fills you with dread. That just means you’re human.
Navied Mahdavian for NPR

Navied Mahdavian is a New Yorker cartoonist and the author of the graphic memoir This Country: Searching for Home in (Very) Rural America.

 

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Friday, September 18, 2026

Is Soup season back already? Grandma's Kitchen

 

 



Rained all night the wind was almost cold, this morning dawned very gray. It feels like late October!
The trees are still green,there are still ripening tomatoes on the vine, and the pumpkins haven't started to ripen yet!   This has be wondering, OK worrying.   But weather, as my readers know is a bit different, just enough to notice ,here in the Piney Woods

 

Unless i have something planned for dinner each day, i don't have a plan for  dinner, i always ask what everyone wants.   They seldom agree.  I should have known, but today was different.  Just knew that the answer would be soup or stew.  Yup! should have known. 

My feeling is that soups and stews are meant to warm body, soul and mood.  Also that leftovers, family approved ingredients and occasionally gourmet touches, can be part of a great pot of soup or stew.   If you add too many left overs, well someone is going to notice.   Even if you try to disguise it with a bit of  your own creativity.


 

Ingredients

  • 3 pounds beef stew meat
  • 2 - 14 ounce cans beef stock
  • 2 1/2 cups celery diced
  • 1 medium onion chopped
  • salt and pepper to taste
  • 1/4 cup corn starch dissolved in 1/4 water
  • 2 - 12 ounce packages of Reames Frozen Home style Egg Noodles

Instructions

  • To a pan over medium heat add beef, beef stock, celery, and onion. Generously salt and pepper.
  • Cover and simmer for about an hour, until meat and veggies are tender. Stirring occasionally.
  • While meat cooks, prepare your egg noodles per the package instructions. Or make your own homemade egg noodles.
  • When the meat is tender, add corn starch/water mixture and stir, the sauce will thicken in just a few minutes.
  • Drain and add the noodles, combine with meat mixture.
  • I love mine just like it is, but my hubby tops it with sour cream!

 

 

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I was handed this recipe, and have no idea who wrote it, but it looks good.   And remember that you can always make it your own version with some omissions and or additions.   

 

Happy stirring! 


 

 

 

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